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the next question comes from a guy he

says how do I get my wife to lose weight

alright good question first of all this

video is for men only if you’re a female

click off right now don’t watch this

alright alright good okay now guys

listen the absolute best way to get your

wife to lose weight hands down is to pay

her cash in other words I found the more

money that you pay her the more

motivated she’ll be $5,000 does work

$10,000 works better that was a joke

alright now don’t worry about the cash

here’s what you don’t do I mean I hear

the most terrible terrible things that

some men do to their spouses that I’m

just shocked I mean like listen like

you’re you’re hugging your wife and you

say hey you want to work out and you

pinch her fat dude that’s terrible don’t

do that

you’re at dinner and she orders

something and and maybe she’s eating

something that she should mean you go

honey what are you doing I thought you

want to lose weight that doesn’t work or

honey why don’t you go lose weight like

she doesn’t know she’s overweight the

more you remind someone of a problem the

more you get more of that problem you

have to use a very light touch you get

what you validate so if you’re

validating her being fat you’re gonna

get more of that you want to validate

the rightness the times that she did

workout use a very very light touch so

let’s say for example you could you know

sit you could say something like this

honey I’m gonna go work out do you want

to come with and if she says no totally

fine don’t make her feel guilty so you

just have to stop and validating your

spouse because all that does is it locks

in more grief upset frustration you got

to use a light touch validate the

rightness bite your tongue and really

try to

support her without reminding her she

needs she knows she needs to lose weight

you don’t need to remind her but if that

doesn’t work I think the cash might work